What could have been more ironic then on the day first
All-Women Bank was announced in India, a woman bank manager was attacked in an
unguarded ATM in Bangalore by a miscreant man for money that left her paralyzed
and critical. Just couple of days later, a woman journalist has accused a media
honcho of sexually assaulting her in a hotel in Goa. The woman and her family
have also reportedly received threats for the accusation that she has made against
the media bigwig, reportedly by his henchmen. Another couple of days pass and
93 school girls are sexually assaulted in a moving train in Bihar. Their ‘fault’
was to ask to protest the occupation of their reserved seats in the GangaDamodar Express by a large group of men claiming to be examinees of the railway
recruitment exam. Their teachers were beaten-up and the girls were sexually
harassed for more than four hours. No co-passengers came to their rescue.
Can the All-Women Bank really change the fate of girls and
women in this country? Can it really empower them? Can it help them to get their
due?
All talks about women empowerment and equality currently
seems mostly limited to political circles (plain rhetoric), intellectual
circles (lackluster research) or social circles (page 3 stories). If there has
been any change in the state of women or in the participation of women then the
credit goes to these women who have excelled at home or outside home.
Last week two of our students came to interview me on the reasons
for existence of glass-ceiling in organizations that prevents women from
reaching top echelons of the leadership, thereby restricting their talent and capability.
The students were doing this as a part of a project given to them by a
colleague of mine.
Do such glass ceilings exist? A whole lot of statistics and ‘lived
experiences’ would tell you that the women have often found the ‘stairs’
suddenly disappearing in their organization in their quest for summit.
Causative? Undoubtedly this is a Cultural issue.
The smallest and most basic element of any society is a
family. While some of us may have been lucky to come from beautiful families,
most families suffer from a Cultural dys-functionality. Man of the house rules
the roost. He takes all major decisions and all financial decisions, almost.
The house runs on his commands. His moods decide the mood of the house; he
smiles, everyone smiles, he frowns, none dare speak and if he frets then everyone
ducks in the ‘trenches’. Often the lady of the house is reduced to a mere ‘worker’
and is dehumanized’.
If the house has both boy and a girl, then the boy always
gets preferential treatment. The boy is treated like a ‘Prince’ pampered and
spoiled and the girl is made to the chores of the house.
Take this incident for instance - It is not uncommon to find people running and crossing busy roads in India with complete disregard to safety. The other day I witnessed a mother running across a busy road with two of her children, a boy and a girl. And guess what, she was holding the hand of the boy and the girl was all by herself running behind her mother. The mother was not even looking whether her daughter was making it or not. Heart breaking to me!!!
Take this incident for instance - It is not uncommon to find people running and crossing busy roads in India with complete disregard to safety. The other day I witnessed a mother running across a busy road with two of her children, a boy and a girl. And guess what, she was holding the hand of the boy and the girl was all by herself running behind her mother. The mother was not even looking whether her daughter was making it or not. Heart breaking to me!!!
But this discussion is not about families. All this is to
underline something deeper that runs across our families to societies and to
organizations – the Culture. Culturally we refuse to treat another woman as
equal or many a times even a human. Men do maximum damage, but since it is a
cultural issue that is why even some women fall into this trap and treat the
other woman with less dignity.
Harassment of women, violence against women or glass-ceilings
in organization are all by-products of this Culture. The same people, who
populate the families, populate the society and the organizations too.
What is the solution?
German government is reportedly pushing for 30 per cent quota
for women in supervisory boards in all German companies. The move has been
opposed by major companies like Volkswagen, BMW, Daimler, Opel since it will
lead to major upheaval of their management.
So is Quota a solution in India too? Reserve a fixed per
cent of leadership positions of women in organizations?
Quota always contradicts merit. And leadership positions
should go to the most deserving and not to the one because of his/her gender.
Then what’s the solution?
Solution is no different from the problem. Even in cultures
like ours’ companies can create an organizational culture that ensures women do
not drop out at middle-level positions. Take ICICI Bank for instance. They have
made it possible for women employees to also choose responsibilities what they want to do; they
have made it a taboo in organization for anyone to say that he does not want to
work with someone or does not want someone in the team just because that person
happens to be a woman. The women employees also get vacation during the exam
months of their kids, but largely, in the interview of Mr. K. Ramkumar, ED atICICI Bank (published in Business Line, a business daily), seemed to suggest that
the bank is trying to create a organizational culture that breaks bias and glass
ceilings against women.
Organizations may not get compete success, but by creating
such cultures within themselves they can still insulate the larger culture to a
large extent. It is only by creation of such cultures that it can possibly change
attitudes and pre-dispositions of people towards women.
Certain section of societies and families can also do so as well by creating a micro-culture that is different from the larger culture. That is why some communities and families are better.
Certain section of societies and families can also do so as well by creating a micro-culture that is different from the larger culture. That is why some communities and families are better.
Engaging women is a not a charity but a recognition to an
equally good talent pool that is needed and is indispensable.
All-Women bank is welcome but we need to bank on women more to bring about a real change.
5 comments:
yes i totally agree with you and what you said in your last line is very true that "All-Women bank is welcome but we need to bank on women more to bring about a real change"
but yes giving quotas to woman in every sector won't pushes the women empowerment rather it will show the weakness, which is not true
giving women extra leverage like you said leaves for kids studies and all is correct and should be there in organisations but giving reward on gender based in any organisation is not correct
so i will conclude my comment by saying we should help women but don't make them feel that they always need a support system to live and accomplish something in life
I agree with you, as this is not just happening in the India but also in other countries. All this is happening due to the CULTURE which include families and societies.Sometimes culture refuse to consider women equal or many times even a human.Harassment of women, violence against women or glass-ceilings in organization are all by-products of this Culture.
AS the Germany government is pushing for 30 per cent quota for women in supervisory boards in all German companies.But many of the companies are not against it like Volkswagen, BMW, Daimler, Opel. In the organisation some supportive measures should be taken so that women don't compromise their jobs for their personal problems. I am not saying that they always need support of men, but there should be no discrimination between men and women. they should be treated equally, whether its home or organisation.
Harrassment,Voilence against woman or the 'Glass Ceiling' being present in an org that hinders growth of woman,all this happens specially in India mainly cause of the culture which the people are taught.In orthodox families in India woman have never been treated equal.This a resulted in the child specially the boy to carry on the same thinking.In nuclear families this has not always been the case.
When it comes to reservations/quota for woman in supervisory boards,bringing it into private companies environment may upset the balance because some people/men will have to be removed from their posts and this will surely upset men who are egoistic.
An yes there should be no discrimination against woman and strict rules have to be bought about in this regard,to ensure best for the woman,as they say 'Behind every successful man is a woman'.
I think the root of this issue lies in the parochial mindset that has been cultivated over the centuries since it can be witnessed even in the educated class of the society as evidenced by the just concluded drama of the Aarushi Talwar case. Considering that Aarushi's parents were both well educated yet they couldn't accept the decision of their child and maybe/probably succumb to peer/social pressure in general draws an ugly picture of the Indian society as a large. And that makes us wonder what horror lies in store for the girl-child born in some desolate backward part of India, where the boy-child is treated largely as a prince bereft of crown and the girl as a burden. This is the India that remains in shadow but still its affect can be seen in every social strata. But is it only segregrated to the feminine sex? I think it is a culmination of every kind of discrimination that currently exists in our society. Unfortunately it is channeled in the direction of the women because maybe they are viewed as the weaker sex or for any number of reasons, but the fact remains that making stricter rules isnt going to solve the matter till we decide to correct it from the root. Probably more exposure to mass media, employment and mass education of the masses will help in weeding out retrogressive thinking that has been the bane of the country which gave us Kamasutra and Ajanta and Ellora caves. It might take generations but it will be a start. Also as you so rightly mentioned, we are considerably lucky being born to liberal parents and had relatively liberal relatives et al throughout our formative periods, thus bestowing us with the ability to differentiate right from wrong, even though,we don't always have the courage to act. So does it makes us any more different from the perpetrators of these heinous crimes. In a way I think I'm at the very least as guilty as them and I envy my friends and seniors who actively contribute in some way to the society. The day we all will rebel against these ignominy and take pride as a citizen of a liberal, secular and democratic country where every one has there freedom irrespective of sex or class or creed and all are treated equally only then we will be able to bring an end to these pandemic that is afflicting our society.
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