So without an iota of doubt, science has proved that women
are smarter than men in many ways. So what should have been the natural
outcome? Their participation in the visible economy should have increased,
right? Men realising the potential of
their better counterparts, should have shared more work at home as women prove to
be more than equal in the world outside home! Perceptually we also think this
is what has happened, do you agree?
Yes! Well, think again!
The findings of the report of National Sample
Survey Organization on participation of women in domestic duties are startling.
It shows (refer source 2) that despite the hype, more women are remaining home-bound doing
domestic duties than a decade ago, even though a large of them are willing to
work. This is true both for rural and urban areas. In rural areas, the share of
women mainly doing domestic duties hovered around the 35% mark between
1999-2000 and 2004-05, but increased sharply to over 40% in 2009-10; in urban
areas this rose from 45% to 48%. Among the home-bound non-working women over 15
years old 19% in rural areas and 18% in urban areas said that they would like
to work from home.
Alas!
So women are smarter, yet more burdened! Why do you think
this happens? The answer is hidden behind the varied psyche of men and women.
Women instinctively think they have to take care!
Women’s ability to be better at inductive reasoning and
assessment of changing situation results
in them instinctively take to caring for family better than men. This coupled
with motherhood, makes them automatically take to household work when the
option is to do or keep things unmanaged. Society also puts the responsibility
of taking care of home, family and kids on women. In short, women have no
choice.
Men at best think that they help!
Despite the fact that the number of chivalrous men have
increased over the years, even those who
share the household work think that they are helping. Help! which means that
the basic assumption is still that the household work is women’s domain. This
is the problem.
So what does it leave women with? More work at home, fewer choices
and tougher years ahead. The only hope is their brain, that without doubt is
sharper and smarter. Happy Women’s Day brave ladies!
(Sources: 1. Women have more efficient brains than men, The Telegraph, U.K. March 3, 2013;
2. More women stay home, do housework than 10 yrs ago, The Times of India, March 2, 2013)
2 comments:
Hope women in India get to find more chivalrous men who can support women to break free from the shackles of being confined to household work.
I read this blog post only today. Thanks for the Women's Day wishes sir.
Amen!
Thanks,
Debashish
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