Language of Love

My son was playing Japanese City Pop on the car stereo. This is his latest love, and frankly we don’t dislike it either. At times we listen to Korean songs and even at times Malayalam, Tamil, Kannada or a Marathi song. Other than Hindi, English and Bengali, we do not understand a word of other songs, yet love them. 'Language of love' trumps all!!!

 Cut to today’s news on a news site - a woman was reportedly harassed for not speaking the local language. This is not an isolated incident. Throughout the world,  since time immemorial, we have fought over many things, language being one of them. Such a vainglorious thing!

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Learning a new language is amazing. There are no two words about it. As Nelson Mandela had once said, language is not only a means of communication but a reflection into a culture and history. Having said this, learning a language should be a matter of choice and not a compulsion. Language imposed on people erodes their likelihood of liking that language ever in the future. In certain places, because of this imposition, kids in schools are forced to learn three languages at a time. That’s not only unfair, but also unnecessary. Instead, if we want people to learn a language, then we need to create an environment where people start loving a language and want to learn it, so that they can explore a new culture, history and contemporary art and literature. In short, it needs to be a ‘PULL’ not a 'PUSH' strategy.

The greatest language of all is the 'language of love'. Even if you do not understand a word of what other person is saying, if you apply the language of love, you can always understand what the other person means or needs. How come we claim to understand what our pets ‘say’ although they do not speak a single word, yet cancel another fellow human who cannot speak the language that we speak?

DEB (Digital Everyday Behaviours) with DEB | Ep1: Phubbing

 Has it ever happened to that you are talking to someone, and that person starts checking their phone? Check out this video -

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Energy and Experience needs to be married to Engagement

 A professional contact recently sent me an article that claims that there is a ‘growing undercurrent of scepticism surrounds the managerial capabilities of Gen Z…’ I feel that in many ways this article sends wrong signals and shows a rather shallow understanding of the author about younger generations and their engagement into the workforce.

Gen Z are relatively new to managerial roles hence there is no doubt will require capacity building and mentoring, and so did earlier generations as well. So, although it is an uncontested point, but there is nothing new or uniquely missing about Gen Z. Hence, I find a bit strange is how quickly people start labelling a particular generation. That is a bit of a hurried conclusion and tad bit unfair towards Gen Zs. All we need to do is provide Gen Z with adequate training opportunities, good mentoring and coaching that helps us to groom them as better leaders.

I agree with the fact that every generational cohort has its own strengths. This is why multi-generational workforce can be a strength, provided there is greater generational empathy and right understanding. Experience and Energy need to be married to Engagement.

The article also once again reveals glaring areas of poor understanding of younger generations like Gen Zs. This is evident in statements like –

‘Gen Z’s approach to workplace culture and hierarchy can also be a point of contention…’

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‘Gen Z’s approach to work-life balance also raises eyebrows…’

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‘One of the primary concerns employers have is Gen Z’s rapid rise in aspirations…’

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‘Respect for hierarchy and seniority varies significantly across generations. Gen Z’s informal communication style, influenced by social media and digital platforms, sometimes clashes with the expectations of older generations who value formality and respect…’

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‘Employers fear that Gen Z managers may prioritise personal goals over organisational needs…’

And there are many more. These all are signs of poor understanding of Gen Z and reasons why engagement levels are poor. 

I have studied Gen Zs right from their adolescent and teenage days and hence have had the opportunity to gain a deeper insight into their life realities and the shift in the environmental dynamics around them.

 In the last 10 years I have had the opportunity to work with progressive and visionary organizations in India, Dubai, UK and US and help their managers and leaders develop a deeper understanding of millennial and Gen Z employees and customers, to drive stronger engagement. Similarly other organizations who recognize these issues and invest to train their managers on how to engage the younger generational workers and customers, stand a much better chance in the marketplace.

This articles states that some employers are avoiding hiring Gen Zs. I have recently read more such articles. However, one cannot ignore or avoid Gen Zs and that is the reality. Very soon they will form a major proportion of the global workforce and firms can choose to ignore them at their own peril. The better and wiser route is the route of engagement and that is only possible when we have a right understanding of the generational cohort and can find ways to engage them first and then groom them to bring about a planned change. Any other route is an ‘Ostrich Choice’.